Comments on: My [Future] Wife Part 2 http://www.revolutionreality.com/2005/08/15/my-future-wife-part-2/ Fri, 22 Jan 2010 01:31:03 +0000 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.9.2 hourly 1 By: Revolution Reality » Archive » New Things Come in Time http://www.revolutionreality.com/2005/08/15/my-future-wife-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-437 Revolution Reality » Archive » New Things Come in Time Tue, 15 Aug 2006 03:18:07 +0000 http://fpserver.no-ip.com/blog/2005/08/15/my-future-wife-part-2/#comment-437 [...] There was an entry I added, ironically, a year ago tomorrow.  I wasn’t even aware that it was the “anniversary” of the post, but either way — I was going to talk about.  In brief, the post is about who I’m looking for in a future wife.  Recently, I’ve just about grown to the point where I’m not sure it can be met — and others around me have told me the same.  So I’m keeping the list until September 15th, 2006 — unless something changes.  That’s a full month.  If nothing has changed from now and then, I’m changing it.  Some of the things that I feel are essential for me to connect to whomever I date (and hope-to marry), are the things I’ll probably reform or remove. [...] [...] There was an entry I added, ironically, a year ago tomorrow.  I wasn’t even aware that it was the “anniversary” of the post, but either way — I was going to talk about.  In brief, the post is about who I’m looking for in a future wife.  Recently, I’ve just about grown to the point where I’m not sure it can be met — and others around me have told me the same.  So I’m keeping the list until September 15th, 2006 — unless something changes.  That’s a full month.  If nothing has changed from now and then, I’m changing it.  Some of the things that I feel are essential for me to connect to whomever I date (and hope-to marry), are the things I’ll probably reform or remove. [...]

]]> By: Benj http://www.revolutionreality.com/2005/08/15/my-future-wife-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-434 Benj Thu, 10 Aug 2006 09:37:22 +0000 http://fpserver.no-ip.com/blog/2005/08/15/my-future-wife-part-2/#comment-434 "My future girlfriend, fiancée, and wife will love Christian Music and not listen to any secular music (any at all, actually)." Mate, the amount of people (in your case females) that only listen to Christian music is so minuscule that this may wreck your chances if you stick to this rule. Every Christian girl I've met and dated, have most of the qualities you are looking for - in love with God, a little more out going then me, self-respect and isn't super conscious of what other people think of her, etc. but they all listened to secular music. I'm not saying you will never find a girl that doesn't listen to secular music, but what I am saying is that your chances are very (very) low. I don't like girls who listen to the "shake that ass" type of music, but I like girls who listen to music which doesn't have a Christian influence but is still "good" morally. Anyway that is my opinion :-) “My future girlfriend, fiancée, and wife will love Christian Music and not listen to any secular music (any at all, actually).” Mate, the amount of people (in your case females) that only listen to Christian music is so minuscule that this may wreck your chances if you stick to this rule.

Every Christian girl I’ve met and dated, have most of the qualities you are looking for – in love with God, a little more out going then me, self-respect and isn’t super conscious of what other people think of her, etc. but they all listened to secular music.

I’m not saying you will never find a girl that doesn’t listen to secular music, but what I am saying is that your chances are very (very) low.

I don’t like girls who listen to the “shake that ass” type of music, but I like girls who listen to music which doesn’t have a Christian influence but is still “good” morally.

Anyway that is my opinion :-)

]]> By: Gollum http://www.revolutionreality.com/2005/08/15/my-future-wife-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-94 Gollum Tue, 28 Feb 2006 06:01:10 +0000 http://fpserver.no-ip.com/blog/2005/08/15/my-future-wife-part-2/#comment-94 More men need lists like this. I meet many women (non christians) that have succummed to the worlds standard becuase they think men like us don't exist. WE (men like us) need to be more vocal about our views to change women's view on men, to hopfuly give our future children the chance at courtship we could only dream of. The real sad thing is that most the men I know share most of these views, most of them being single. The ones that are married found thier bridges at christian colleges. Why must we go so far out of our way to meet anyone? This sad disconnection of christians brings sorrow to my soul. But at the same time I believe that you can have anything in life if you want it hard enough, and having christ on our side makes it that much easier. So I'm just stayin' steadfast in my faith and waiting out the storm called "being single." More men need lists like this. I meet many women (non christians) that have succummed to the worlds standard becuase they think men like us don’t exist. WE (men like us) need to be more vocal about our views to change women’s view on men, to hopfuly give our future children the chance at courtship we could only dream of.

The real sad thing is that most the men I know share most of these views, most of them being single. The ones that are married found thier bridges at christian colleges. Why must we go so far out of our way to meet anyone? This sad disconnection of christians brings sorrow to my soul. But at the same time I believe that you can have anything in life if you want it hard enough, and having christ on our side makes it that much easier. So I’m just stayin’ steadfast in my faith and waiting out the storm called “being single.”

]]> By: What Comes Next? » A New Years Resolution? http://www.revolutionreality.com/2005/08/15/my-future-wife-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-75 What Comes Next? » A New Years Resolution? Sun, 01 Jan 2006 04:01:38 +0000 http://fpserver.no-ip.com/blog/2005/08/15/my-future-wife-part-2/#comment-75 [...] Now comes a little New Years Resolution. I’ve honestly never really remember making one (that I really intended to keep), but maybe I’m wrong. By the end of 2006 I will: be speaking more, worshipping GOD much more freely, believe what God has said about me, have some friends (and a girlfriend that exceeds everything on my list), and finish reading the Bible (actually I think that may have been an old resolution, but I’m going to finish everything I’ve yet to read). That’s my list, not too long, but not too short either. [...] [...] Now comes a little New Years Resolution. I’ve honestly never really remember making one (that I really intended to keep), but maybe I’m wrong. By the end of 2006 I will: be speaking more, worshipping GOD much more freely, believe what God has said about me, have some friends (and a girlfriend that exceeds everything on my list), and finish reading the Bible (actually I think that may have been an old resolution, but I’m going to finish everything I’ve yet to read). That’s my list, not too long, but not too short either. [...]

]]> By: Jackie http://www.revolutionreality.com/2005/08/15/my-future-wife-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-48 Jackie Fri, 18 Nov 2005 06:00:54 +0000 http://fpserver.no-ip.com/blog/2005/08/15/my-future-wife-part-2/#comment-48 I really think that one day you will find that person that meets your needs. And although I hate to say it I don't think that God wants me to be the Cat Lady liveing down the street neither. So...He has someone for everyone. More perfect then your dream woman! I really think that one day you will find that person that meets your needs. And although I hate to say it I don’t think that God wants me to be the Cat Lady liveing down the street neither. So…He has someone for everyone. More perfect then your dream woman!

]]> By: Emma http://www.revolutionreality.com/2005/08/15/my-future-wife-part-2/comment-page-1/#comment-20 Emma Fri, 26 Aug 2005 02:00:06 +0000 http://fpserver.no-ip.com/blog/2005/08/15/my-future-wife-part-2/#comment-20 never compromise on that list. ;) that is totally awesome that you hold up standards like that. I know lots of guys who only care if the gal is cute and isn't a total ditz! lol. right on!! never compromise on that list. ;) that is totally awesome that you hold up standards like that. I know lots of guys who only care if the gal is cute and isn’t a total ditz! lol. right on!!

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